You’re not broken. You’re in survival mode.

When nothing else helps, RESET gives you something you can do today.

If everything feels too loud, too much or too hard to start, it’s not a motivation problem. It’s your nervous system trying to keep you safe.

RESET is survivor-led, trauma-aware and ADHD-friendly. We focus on one thing: helping you feel even 5% safer so the next small step actually feels possible.

Shame-free Trauma-aware ADHD-friendly No toxic positivity
No pressure. No perfection. Just small, honest tools that meet you where you actually are.
Right now

Try a 2-minute RESET with me

You don’t need a full plan today. You need your body to feel 5% safer. Try this tiny stabiliser:

  1. Longer out-breath. Inhale 4, exhale 6. Drop shoulders, soften jaw.
  2. Name 5 things you can see. Bring your system back into the room you’re in.
  3. Hand to chest. Say quietly: “I’m overloaded, not broken.”

If that gave you even a little space, that’s your proof your system can shift. We build from there.

Recognition

Does this feel familiar?

  • You hold it together all day, then crash into scrolling or snacking at night.
  • Even “simple” tasks feel impossible when you’re exhausted and overloaded.
  • You look “fine” on the outside but feel numb, fried or close to tears.
  • You’ve tried planners, routines, mindset – nothing seems to stick.
  • You’re tired of calling yourself lazy, messy or inconsistent.

If you’re nodding along, you’re not the problem. Your system is overloaded and no one ever taught you how to safely come down.

Start here

Survival Mode RESET (£37)

A short, practical journey for people who look “fine” but feel anything but. No 40-module overwhelm. Just simple, repeatable tools to calm your system and increase capacity.

  • Lower the noise in your body and brain.
  • Exit shutdown without forcing yourself to “push through”.
  • Take one small action that actually feels possible today.

Best if: you’re exhausted, overwhelmed and done white-knuckling the day alone.

Begin Survival Mode RESET (£37)

Money or capacity tight right now? Scroll to “Free tools” – you’re still welcome here.

If money or capacity is tight

Free tools to stabilise right now

Choose what fits what hurts most today. One guide is enough – you don’t have to do everything.

The 5-Minute Reset

Fast tools for wired, frozen or overwhelmed states.

Get the guide →

The Craving RESET

Support for emotional eating, late-night spirals and self-soothing loops.

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ADHD Intimacy RESET

For when closeness feels unsafe but you still want connection.

Get the guide →

ADHD Micro RESET

Tiny tools for when you have almost no capacity at all.

Get the guide →
When you’re ready for deeper work

Go deeper with Trauma RESET

For when stabilising isn’t enough anymore. This is for the part of you that knows it’s time to tend to the deeper layers – at your pace.

Trauma RESET is a deeper emotional journey:

  • Held, shame-aware, survivor-led guidance.
  • Space to understand your patterns instead of just managing them.
  • Support to rebuild trust with yourself gently, not forcefully.

Learn more about Trauma RESET →

About RESET

Hi, I’m Jeanette

I didn’t build RESET because life was going well. I built it because the system failed me when I was already 150 feet below rock bottom.

A psychologist told me it was the “wrong time” for treatment. A nurse put me on a waiting list I’m probably still on. I was living in survival mode with trauma, ADHD, heartbreak, and a nervous system that would not switch off.

RESET came out of those nights: learning how to calm my system inch by inch, exit shutdown gently, and rebuild myself without pretending I was “fine”.

Today, RESET is survivor-led, trauma-aware and ADHD-friendly. You don’t need more willpower or a perfect routine. You need safety, clarity, and one small step that feels possible.

A gentler way forward

You’re not too much. You’re too overloaded.

  1. Start small → Survival Mode RESET (£37).
  2. Repeat what actually helps (tiny is enough).
  3. Go deeper when you feel ready.

You don’t need a whole new life. You just need a safer starting point.

That, we can work with.